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The Toughest Times

Updated: Apr 24, 2023

The last time I shared an update, we were isolated in a hospital room for days due to Covid protocols. It was also Dan's birthday and we couldn't celebrate him as a family. The last few weeks were hard, possibly the hardest emotionally.


We completed 2 inpatient methotrexate treatments while being in isolation for each 4 night stay. That was challenging, physically and emotionally. He received a ton of care cards from all of you during the first visit. Thank you so much for putting a smile on this boy's face. The response was overwhelming!


Here is a picture of Jordan waving to Sami and Dan from his hospital room. This just broke my heart. You can see them on the corner standing outside of our truck.




Jordan's care team did their best to support him throughout. He had a few visits from Bob Casey, the hospital's psychologist, who has built a strong relationship with Jordan and helped navigate some new and reoccurring emotions. And upon our discharge on the last stay, his nurse Kenley surprised him with a gift card to the coffee shop in the lobby of the hospital so Jordan can buy more Vanilla Bean Chillers (they were one of those things that got him through the days...). Here is a picture of Jordan and Kenley just before we left the hospital.




A few days after being discharged, Jordan completed his last outpatient chemo treatment!!! Bye bye Doxorubicin! He also tested negative for Covid. Some MAJOR milestones were hit over the last couple of days. Only 2 more inpatient visits to go, and then Jordan will ring that bell so freaking loud! We are so close....


We also finally celebrated Dan's birthday as a family. It's never too late to celebrate.



Once chemo ends, the focus will shift to physical strength and healing so he can get fit for a prosthetic. We are starting to see the light...


Jordan is feeling ok, just a bit beat up from his recent chemo treatments. Over the next week, we will keep a close eye on his blood counts and overall health, with hopes of staying out of the hospital due to a fever or otherwise. His next scheduled admission is April 21 to start the last round of chemo therapy.


With so much love and light,

The CO Obies

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Jodi Gigante
Jodi Gigante
Apr 11, 2023

That picture of Jordan waving goodbye is so beautiful, although heartbreaking for you, Mom. You have all won gold medals through this incredible fight. Keep it going. Hugs and strength. Jodi😍

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Jane Obernesser
Jane Obernesser
Apr 10, 2023

Hello all you Obie stars!! I am simply blown away by what you have gone through and how amazingly well you have done considering all the ups and downs. It is so great to think that this journey is almost done, We continue to pray for all of you. Much love from the CS contingent.❤️

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Debbie Szulczewski
Debbie Szulczewski
Apr 10, 2023

To the entire Obernesser Family, you all are amazing and especially Jordan! What a fight you have all been through and we are so glad to hear that it's almost over and you all can start to heal as a family. Good times are ahead, persevere and you'll all get to the finish line together. Sending our love and prayers for your continued strength to the end!

Love Bob & Debbie Szulczewski

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Cary Feld
Cary Feld
Apr 10, 2023

It is good to hear that you have passed the difficulties of the past few weeks. It is so tough to know how to help, what to say other than that we love you all, support you in any way we can, and pray that the future is better than the recent past. You are lucky to have each other. When Roberta got sick I did not know if I would be able to be the caregiver she needed. I did not think I could survive the loss of Doug. I know now that there is no challenge that you cannot handle and overcome as long as you are together as a family. Jordan, you have been incredibly stro…

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Todd Collins
Todd Collins
Apr 10, 2023

There really are no other words than "amazing" to describe the journey you guys have been on. Well maybe a few:

endurance

perseverance

resilience

so many more words... but most importantly "love".


I'm sure there's been no shortage of frustration, anger, and all the negative words that we don't need to bring up yet are likely relevant.


You're fighting a good fight and as far as I can tell about as good as it can be fought. Keep up the fight.


It is always nice to see Jordan at Sammy's soccer games. You all are truly amazing.


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